Its the setup I fear. Well meaning people, who "just want me to meet someone nice". Especially when their idea of lovely doesn't match mine. And when I already have someone else in mind to measure them against; it just isn't fair on the prospective date. It's just that the one I'm thinking of comes with a long list of pleasant memories, and I'm beginning to worry that no one else will ever come close. Still, the threat of the setup always looms, and probably when I least expect it.